Health Problems – mental and physical
A problem gambler may suffer physical and mental
illness as a result of their gambling. Anxiety
and depression are common and the gambler may
experience panic attacks or a feeling of despondency
and lack of self worth. Once the addiction takes
hold these problems increase as it becomes harder
for the gambler to see a way out of the situation.
The stress involved in hiding the addiction and
the financial strain of the gambling itself can
lead to headaches and nausea. Many problem gamblers
experience insomnia. Weight loss and general poor
health as a result of self neglect are possible.
Some problem gamblers become physically run down
due to devoting all their time and energy to gambling.
Ordinary day to day concerns such as diet and
personal care become unimportant. In some cases
the gambler may resort to the use of drugs or
alcohol, or the increased use of tobacco to relieve
the tension. This in turn leads to more serious
health problems.
When problem gambling becomes serious it begins
to affect everything you say and do. As the addiction
takes over it will seep into every aspect of life,
consuming thoughts and dictating actions.
The gambler is no longer in complete control
of his or her life and as a result changes in
character and personality are possible. Others
may notice and comment on this, but something
that often goes unrecognised is the effect on
the gambler themselves. Regardless of age, gender,
social position, family and financial status,
someone succumbing to compulsive gambling may
be most frightened by the way they seem to be
loosing control of themselves. The emotional pressure
of problem gambling can slowly erode self worth.
The gambler may become aware of these changes
in personality - changes in the way they think
about themselves - but are helpless to act on
this awareness. He or she may feel overwhelmed
by the position they have put themselves in; feelings
of helplessness in the face of the addiction are
common. So aside from the stress and strain of
the gambling, the person also suffers from negative
changes in their mental state. The result of this
is possibly most the most damaging effect of problem
gambling: the breakdown of relationships.
Social Problems – when relationships
suffer
Problem gambling is not simply a financial concern;
it is a psychological addiction with behavioural
outcomes. In other words, problem gambling affects
the behaviour of the individual; this in turn
affects the individual’s relationships with
other people. Aside from the gambler his or her
self, the people most severely affected by problem
gambling are the families of the gambler. The
problem gambler may feel the need to hide the
frequency and extent of the gambling from those
closest to him. He or she will lie about where
they have been and where their money has gone.
This leads to tension and arguments within the
family and ultimately a breakdown of trust between
family members. Time usually spent with the family
or in the home is now spent gambling. Spouses
and children feel neglected and ignored. It is
difficult for them to understand how something
seemingly frivolous and inconsequential can take
over the life of someone they love. The longer
the gambling goes on the deeper the rift will
become.
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